How do you tell someone you want more than casual?
Tell Him What You Need You can say something like, “I care about you, so this is going to be hard for me. I would really appreciate it if you gave me some space and allowed me to move on. Please dont call me, come see me, or try to change my mind.” If hes a decent person, hell respect your wishes.
How do you say you want to hookup?
Take a direct approach when asking him to have sex.You can just go for it and say, “Want to come over and hook up?” Or try, “I want to kiss you right now. Come over.”Just saying, “Lets have sex,” is pretty direct and cant be confused as you implying anything else.
Do I tell him what I want?
The short answer is YES: you should definitely tell him how you feel about him and “lay your cards out on the table.” Sharing your feelings is a powerful and wonderful way to connect and deepen your relationship and bring him closer to you, even if it is a friendship right now.